“Ben is a truly stunning human being through and through.

Experiencing Sacred Spot sessions with him was a deeply powerful and transformational catalyst in my life. I felt so safe with him. Knowing his background in physiotherapy and various tantra and sacred sexuality training, I felt both held in a sacred and honoured way, as well as physically taken care of.

Through our sessions, Benjamin was present, curious and deeply supportive. I felt safe to cry and scream out and lean into the painful spaces in my Yoni being dearmoured as well as the pains in my relationships with men soften. I highly recommend experiencing his kindness, sacred container and loving touch.

He is both professional and human in this work and it has meant to world to me to be able to do this work for myself, my healing and my pleasure with Ben.”

I went to see Ben for emotional release body work for trauma which has been stuck in my body for many many years.

This trauma was holding me back from progressing into a happier and more fulfilled version of myself. I was blocked on so many levels and didn’t know it was possible to release what was trapped within.

I had been doing lots of spiritual work, trained as a reiki practitioner and could feel I was close to a breakthrough. Yet I just didn’t know how to facilitate that breakthrough.

This is exactly what Ben did for me.

His body work blasted open all my chakras and I experienced what I later came to understand as a powerful kundalini awakening!

Due to my previous trauma this treatment was fully clothed, yet he somehow managed to completely free me.

Since the session my emotional and spiritual health has gone from strength the strength.

I have a new outlook on life and have been able to release the majority of baggage and negativity over time because now I can actually feel and work through it.

Before Ben’s treatment I was numb and blocked.

Thank you Ben for being an amazing force in my recovery from trauma journey.

“It was better than great. It was phenomenal! I did not expect such huge release to occur and a feeling of instant relief from bodily pains I'd had for years. I can feel the detoxification process in full swing now and am feeling positive about the whole experience.

I have had A LOT of bodywork and massage over the years and can safely say Ben's technical skill is top notch. I would even go as far to say it was the best bodywork I've ever had had. Often practitioners are just going through the motions - however, this was clearly not the case with Ben. I felt he was completely tuned into my body and understanding my needs in each present moment. He was very aware of my breathing, especially when working on more delicate areas that required more attention, and ensured he was also connected to my breath throughout.

Ben is an extremely talented and skilled bodywork practitioner. His compassionate manner and genuine nature allows you to instantly feel safe and held in his presence. So much so that I was able to release huge amounts of emotional tension and trauma that had been locked in my body for years. I am in awe of how effective the treatment was and am eternally grateful for Ben's support in providing a profoundly life-changing experience.”

“Ben is attuned and attentive to the body, and very skilled at what he does. I have had several bodywork sessions from him. They were all deeply relaxing and also fascinating, as the receiver, to discover parts of my body that held suppressed pleasure that I was totally unaware of!

Ben holds a safe, loving, and explorative container where I was able to experience pain releasing, my nervous system unwinding and relaxing, and also waves of laughter and bliss.

Ben is a compassionate person, an amazing listener, and I would totally recommend him for bodywork!”

“I would highly recommend this treatment to anyone that feels a bit stuck with their feelings and emotions, that is a bit unsure of their own boundaries and sense of wholeness and Self.

The session was amazing, I felt really held and supported to meet and release a lot of things that had been stuck in my body for years and years.

It has brought me a lot of insight into how I can manage my emotions when they arise, to allow space for them to be felt and release the stuck energy that is behind them.

Ben is super supportive and made me feel really safe to lean into the uncomfortable and see things as they really are. I felt emotional blockages being released. Traumas being released. Met with my higher self and my own empowerment. It even brought up things and memories from the past that I had no idea they have had an impact on myself in the present. There was space for me to let go of these things and feel more whole.

Thanks so much. I would definitely want to take this treatment again.”

Sitting in a coffee shop reflecting on my second Tantric Massage session with Ben.

I discovered Ben online in a quest to reconnect with my sexuality. Arriving at my first session I was quite nervous however Ben’s energy was calming and grounded and I felt completely safe in the experience.

And what an experience.....mind blowing beyond belief!

I can’t really put into words the depth of the energetic shifts I had. My whole body felt alive and switched on, blocks were moved through and deep pleasure was experienced.

What I hadn’t expected was how deeply spiritual the experience would be and the incredible visions that came through during the process.

During our second session, this went even deeper and I am so excited to see where these experiences will lead me next in my life.

Being held in this space and energy is a truly incredible experience and could quite honestly change your life!

“This has been a life-changer for me it really has and I am so very grateful. I had heard lots about this type of massage and its huge benefits. It took me a while to find a Practitioner I could trust and really open up to.

From the first moment of meeting Benjamin and speaking at length, I knew he was the one who was going to help me to reconnect with my body and release any trauma stored. The set-up was perfect for me, with candles, music and beautiful aroma, this helped me to relax deeply into my being.

A lot came up for me during the massage, Ben has trained in breathwork and really supported me to breathe through the pain whilst it released, and it did. Could feel it transforming in front of me, felt so blissful at times. I felt so safe and held for the duration of the massage and the aftercare was just what I needed after my release. I was able to fully let go in to the experience, after years of feeling numb and not wanting to be touched, feeling stuck and self-loathing.

Life is now worth living.... I feel vibrant, healthy, with life force pulsating through all areas of my body. I just love it and I have a newfound love for myself, I am now starting to feel into the Wild Power I am and its magic. I am so happy I have found Ben; he is the real deal.”

“Knowing the sacredness of this practice, there were a lot of nerves within me as I entered the space. But Ben’s soft and calm energy put me at ease. There is something about Ben’s energy that allowed me to really trust.

I think he has mastered the connection with his feminine and masculine, and can therefore hold space with both assertiveness and a feeling of nurturing. For me, the intention behind this experience was to go deeper into the healing of my sacred space. I knew that through this ancient practice I could access points of trauma and blockages. I also knew that Ben would be strong enough to hold space for that kind of emotional release.

Throughout the experience, I felt safe, and Ben was always there communicating with me so we could guide each other. It was a wild ride, of tears and joy, of deep sadness and immense gratitude. I know not all experiences are like this. Some women go into this practice to experience pleasure. But I received what I needed in that session and it was deeply healing.

I’m so grateful to Ben for being with me along every step of that journey and for showing support and compassion once the session ended. To continue holding the space for me to process. I think Ben has a great ability to listen and to connect with full presence, and I recommend him to anyone who is looking to connect with their sacred space and go deeper into learning and healing and accessing pleasure.”

I am really grateful to myself for taking the plunge and trying something new, especially because I know how long it took me to actually do it, and to Ben for being there for me and giving me the gift of self-discovery of how energy flows throughout my body.

I felt like I was discovering some sensations for the first time, and if I had to describe it in more everyday terms, it would be like having an appliance that you have had for years and discovering that there is a function you did not know existed and this function actually makes your life better.

If I could give advice to anyone, is to follow their gut feeling like I have followed mine, despite all the little voices of reservation in your head because when you surrender to the process, you have the opportunity to keep discovering something beautiful about yourself you could have otherwise missed out on.

“I was initially nervous about attending the session- Ben was very warming before, and I felt safe and comfortable with him very quickly upon meeting him.

I liked the fact that we started the session with the intentions of the session, which was to help improve my feelings of lack of safety and trust with men, which arose from the relationship with my father and my romantic experiences.

I was aware that I had a lot of stiffness and emotions in my body that I could feel my body relaxing and releasing these with the beautiful energy ben was giving.

To my surprise, I was also very sensitive to the bodywork, and I could feel the energy running through my body. Since the session, I feel like I have life-force back in me – feeling alive!

Ben was very present throughout the session and recognised when I dissociated and encouraged me gently back to my awareness and breathing.

I recommend working with Ben if, like me, you feel stuck energetically and want to connect back to your body and feelings of safety with the opposite gender”

The sessions I have had with Ben have been really powerful. They have helped me access stuck emotions and memories that I don't usually have access to.

I have always felt like I'm releasing a lot of tension in the body and feeling empowered afterwards. I felt very held and supported during the treatment.

“I am profoundly grateful and blessed to have experienced an emotional/spiritual/mental "Shift/Detox" with Ben. Ben is an amazing therapist. He embodies and expresses all the qualities of compassion, humility and focus required to amplify Life's invitation to itself to Realise that the personal is the Cosmic (Divine).”

“I felt very safe having my fully clothed emotional detox bodywork done with Ben. He respected my boundaries and took care of me throughout. I felt safe, which is important when you’ve had sexual trauma with males. A few times I disassociated and he recognised this and carefully brought me back into myself. This enabled me to work through what came up. I highly recommend Ben. I’m sure he is going to help a lot of women in the future. He is a very caring and skilled practitioner. He’s a natural.”

Thank you Ben, you're an incredible being too, gifted, caring, nurturing. I'm so glad I felt safe with you and I was able to trust you so openly, it says alot about you!

I've never been so calm, relaxed, in the moment in my whole life, I can't even express how amazing that felt. I didn't feel upset, I felt at peace.

And of course, you might just see me again soon enough haha!

Thank you so very much for your support. I felt so at ease, and for me that's massive, you have a kind and gentle soul.

I absolutely wanted to come with an open mind, heart and soul to allow myself to experience everything I wanted to, and I must say it was an experience, emotions, sensations, everything and more.

Going in to the yoni massage we were both excited and nervous. One of us feeling a little more comfortable. Very quickly Ben connected with us, explained everything and set about creating the perfect ambience for our yonis.

The whole experience was intense and powerful. We learnt a lot about our bodies and the power of different touch.

I would highly recommend Ben, especially if, like us, you are yoni massage Virgin's.

Ellie and Alex

Ben holds such a safe place for you to truly be and release the front you put up for the rest of the world to see.

I felt truly seen and appreciated for who I am, not who I need to be. I connected with my physical body and spiritual emotional self in a way I never had before.

Releasing some of the blocks and trauma I held in my body has already made me feel more connected to the world around me as well.

I’m a bit tearful now just processing how much I’ve put my body through and I could be so much nicer to her. It’s a positive release though, I don’t often allow myself to feel so thank you for helping me process.

Also, I didn’t expect the session to have such profound and long-lasting impacts.

I have looked at Ben’s page for a while and eventually decided I needed to be brave and book a bodywork session with him after reading the testimonials and resonating with what I read.

I have now had two sessions with Ben. The first I was very emotional and nervous and I needn’t have been. Ben was calming, welcoming, so kind and he explained everything and took his time to understand why I was there and my intentions. From start to finish Ben made me feel safe and cared for. Checking in with me days after too.

In the first session it was apparent I had a lot of blocks and stored trauma and it wasn’t easy but with Ben supporting me I released them and felt much lighter at the end of the session. In my first session I didn’t experience a yoni massage but I was happy to have dealt with many long standing blocks and traumas which stemmed from past experiences. I was proud of myself and also, in all honestly, a little surprised at how I let myself go and just worked with my body to release.

For todays session I arrived with no apprehension I just knew I’d experience something powerful and whatever came out of it would be beneficial. I had far less blocks than my previous session and they were less painful and less emotional to work through to release but again with Ben’s guidance I pushed into the pain/block and used my breathing to release them.

My consent was asked for throughout every stage of the session and my wishes were completely respected at all times. I experienced a yoni massage today too and it was incredible to feel so empowered, safe, respected and to be allowed to feel every sensual, pleasurable and powerful feeling that Ben evoked in me. The release I experienced was like nothing I have felt before, I felt such a relief that straight after I burst into tears. I felt love for myself which I haven’t felt before. I no longer felt ashamed and I felt happy and complete. In fact I joked I felt a stone lighter afterwards due to not feeling weighed down with past worries and hurt.

I feel the happiest and most free I have felt for a very long time. I can’t thank Ben enough for what he has done for me, I’m still in awe of how it can have such a profound impact but it has and I am so grateful to have met Ben and taken the opportunity to try a bodywork/yoni healing session.

I now have confidence in my thoughts and a renewed sense of love and respect for myself and my happiness.

If you are even a tiny bit curious or anything resonates please get in touch with Ben, you won’t regret it.

I’ve had 3 deeply powerful sessions with Ben now. Each has been a unique totally mind blowing experience. I had not realised when booking my first session that their would be such a journey ahead. Deeply spiritual, connecting me into the cosmic in a way words can’t even describe. Huge emotional releases….even ancestral emotions coming up and and old blocks untwining in spine tingling ways.

My whole body responds to Bens energy….even without physical touch I can feel the energy moving powerfully through me and the releases that come from this feel transformational.

As we’re in the experience…while being present and feeling these shifts within my body….I’m also often taken on the most powerful visual journeys.

I truly believe this should be experienced by everyone!

I just had to email you after yesterday. I was absolutely wrecked last night. So tired and just mind blown.

Ben you are such an amazing soul. I don’t know what it is there is just something about you that I instantly trusted when I first met you. I never expected what happened to happen over the past two sessions.

Yesterday you encouraged a voice that had been silenced for years. Silenced so much that I had told myself it didn’t happen and that it couldn’t have happened because I was in a relationship with him at the time.

I don’t understand what happened yesterday but each area that caused me pain and emotion was about him and seeing the word Rape. Sensing the struggle. Sensing it as a truth. I don’t understand how it happens. It’s like magic seriously somehow I just don’t get it. I know last time it was focused a lot more on my self-confidence and letting go of past hurts from comments or people’s opinions etc.

Today I sit here in shock tbh. I am beyond grateful that I found your website. I am beyond grateful I had the courage to contact you in the first place. I am beyond my own belief I showed up and allowed myself to be as vulnerable with you as I was the first time. It all just felt ok and not as scary as I thought. I mean I was so body conscious and focused on hiding my body and myself. I suppose I still do to some degree but literally, I wear black all the time. I don’t wear anything out there or do change anything. I try to not be seen and to cover up and hide. Yet the enormity of visiting a stranger and basically being naked physically and mentally/emotionally - I still can’t believe I did that and was not freaking out. I can only be grateful for finding someone like you. I can’t explain or use words to convey what I mean. You feel like some kind of big brother or even what I imagine a father to be really like. This is ridiculous as I am sure you are way younger than me lol. I don’t know there is something about you like I have never experienced before a nurturing, empowering, acceptance - I don’t know. Like I wasn’t alone on the journey. You were like a guide if you like. You came with me and challenged me to speak out. Speak my truth. I am not explaining this very well. I think it’s because I have never experienced someone like you before. I don’t know it is almost like you live life on another level to most people. Your intuition and understanding are kind of freaky but so welcome. I don’t know if it’s your soul, aura, vibe, or sound - I don’t know it’s different and I am grateful for it and thankful that you are who you are.

You have helped me, especially yesterday so much. I mean it is literally life changing. You provided me with and you actually made me speak the words I couldn’t in various ways. You didn’t rush in to say them for me. You left space for me to find the strength to say it. You have allowed me and helped me name and say the biggest darkest secrets I have kept in my life over the past two sessions. Some were hard to face and say and yet some stuff just rolled off the tongue. I can only praise you for the space you create and for the type of person you are.

I don’t know I could sit here and tell you how amazing it was and how changed I am already for days. However, I want you to know that I am so grateful and I want to encourage you that you are I am sure completely gifted in this work and don’t ever doubt it. The impact you have had on my life is unexplainable. I have paid thousands of pounds for therapy and I am not saying that there isn’t a place for that because there is - but six hours with you is like a major therapy session but in a far deeper way because you let go of yourself somehow and settle into a whole new level of thinking, feeling and seeing things. In addition to that you have this amazing guide (you) who leads you into the space but then somehow steps aside and walks with you or even a little behind - never leaves you alone. Please never underestimate the gift you have or what an amazing person you are.

It’s crazy but I would recommend what you do to absolutely anyone - even the most together person in the world. There is so much to learn about yourself/life/the world.

Anyway I could go on and on. I think you get the significance of yesterday for me. I hope you hear the encouragement for you as a person and gratitude for your time.

Thank you for being my guide/father figure/big brother/friend/encourager, especially yesterday.

Your gift is very special

I found it a lot easier than I thought to connect with my body, thoughts and emotions and just let go.

I also felt a real connection with you even though you were a stranger, through the breaths, the eye gaze, hand holding at the end and reassured by your words.

There were definitely moments of sexual charge and orgasmic experiences within my body especially in the first part and although there were some areas of my body where I knew that would happen (I was relieved they were still there) there were definitely elements of surprise!

All the breathing, sounds and movements coming from me from your touches all felt natural and I felt no shame in letting go and there were certain parts I felt beautiful.

I definitely used my strength as a woman and it was really interesting when some of the pain turned to pleasure.

As I said yesterday some of that pain made me feel sick and when you had your hand on my chest I realised how I'd hidden the heartbreak.

I felt automatically I had to apologise but you made me feel really safe and validated and by us taking the moment for me to reconnect with myself and you was amazing, I didn't want to wipe my tears away but use them as well.

After that I felt really sensual, connected with my body even the parts I don't like as much and not broken anymore.

It was a massive unknown step but I'm so glad I did it, I wasn't scared and didn't feel sexualised or used. It was all consensual, safe and sensual.

Sending lots of love and just wanted to say thank you again.

The massage with you really shifted things a lot for me.

Literally, everything is better. My confidence and energy are sky-high, going regularly to yoga and Pilates, people notice my body language and spirit and complementing them every day!

Been Saying big no to any negative energy, clearer view of what I want in life and having the best orgasms! I literally can’t ask for more!

I have taken what you have given me and building on it every day.

I’m writing this message as a thank you and just because I want to share it with you. I’m aware I kept a lot to myself during my session, and hope that maybe by telling you now it’s a small way to reciprocate the positives you gave me.

Before my session with you I was curious and open - but not necessarily expecting anything significant to happen. However the effect has been really profound over the last week. Thank you!

During the session there are a few things that stand out. At one point I felt really powerful, like a superhero! Full of energy and joy - energy streaming out of my hands and feet and yoni. I met myself as a small girl - maybe 3 years old and could encourage myself; I went back to a place where I used to feel so sad when I was bullied - but could experience it differently and observe and comfort myself there; I met myself as a teen and reconnected with some aspects of myself that I have been missing. Quite the journey!

During the session I also noticed feeling blocked about expressing myself, more specifically about expressing sadness. Inhibited. Words and sounds stuck in my chest and throat. That’s something that has shifted a little over the last few days though. I was able to express some long held sadness allow my partner to comfort me in a way I never managed before. I was so grateful to him for being there with me in that - it felt really cathartic. A small thing with huge significance for me.

Also my sexual energy increased afterwards - which was pretty intense as it was high anyway. But it was fun to share with a trusted person a couple of days later.

And though I find I’m still anxious and not able to get as much sleep as I feel I need, my energy levels in general feel higher than before which is fantastic.

During the session I learned that the power in my pleasure and joy can allow me to withstand pain so I don’t need to be so scared - that felt very clear and significant. I think that’s when I felt invincible - like a superhero. That was the ‘yes, fuck you!’ moment. Haha

Really impressed by the way you handle what is such an unusual situation - at least for me. You did such a great job of being supportive and kind and skilled. Thank you 🙏

Sending gratitude, laughter and the warmest of wishes to you and yours!